- Know thyself (boundaries, preferences, cultivate voice and self expression)
- Observe
- To participate : listen / look for a yes to join (ideally with eye contact)
- Start ‘low and slow’ with a light touch with hand or foot and listen / look for a yes
- Continue to pro-actively monitor all communication channels (verbal, energetic, physical…)
- Let go of attachment to outcome ‘Invitation without expectation’